I apologize in advance, this post is mostly writing. I was too busy soaking up every moment of this experience to take many pictures but I've tried to capture it here for you.
It's usually hard to pick one favourite moment when you've had an amazing, exciting, inspiring trip like my African adventure but in this case it was easy. After this particular afternoon I think almost everyone in our group said that meeting the girls at the Kisaruni (place of peace) all girls high school was their "highlight" of the day. For me, it was the highlight of the trip.
Kisaruni philosophy - inspiring!
The girls singing and dancing
Eventually, it was our turn to get up on stage to introduce ourselves. I can tell you, I was certainly NOT putting up my hand to do this...being pretty afraid of public speaking. However, I was completely inspired by these fearless African warrior princesses and I thought to myself, Tash, if these 13-16 year old girls can get up here and speak in their second (or third!) language and tell their story then so can you! And it wasn't so bad. I told them I was from Ottawa (and it was the capital of Canada so they should remember this), had gone to University to study biology, had lived and travelled all over the world but Kenya was the most amazing and beautiful country I had ever seen, told them how amazing I thought they were and I wished them every success in whatever dream they were pursuing.
To be honest, I don't think I've ever been so proud of myself! It was indeed a life changing experience :)
Afterwards, we got some chai masala tea and mandazi (like donuts and sooooo good!) and chatted to our original girl(s). I asked Mariam if she wasn't at school what would she be doing and she said she would probably be married. Her sister was married at the age of 12. It is astounding how quickly change can come about....in the same generation, two sisters are going to have completely different lives (hopefully)! I mean, if Mariam chooses to get married at least it will be her choice.
Here are some more pictures....
The library
Mariam and me eating our mandazi
I personally felt so emotionally connected to these girls and their stories and was overcome with a whole range of feelings that are still with me today. I was...
- Happy that they each had the opportunity to study at this FTC private high school
- Sad that many of their sisters and friends did not have the same opportunity,
- Inspired by them for putting in so many hours each and every day to pursue their dream (starting at 6am and finishing at 10pm, by their own choice!),
- Proud of them for excelling at their studies,
- Impressed that each girl had a very specific career path (Mariam, wanted to go to the university of Nairobi, become a children's lawyer and also be the first person in her village to travel outside of Kenya),
- Honoured that they sang and danced for us, and
- Humbled at their courage and leadership skills when they got up and spoke (in perfect English no less) in front of a group of "visitors" from Canada.
I think it's very fitting that there is no word in Kiswahili for "stranger"...only visitor. Reminds me of a sign I saw in an Irish pub "There are no strangers here, only friends who haven't met yet" :)